Published:

01/24/2012 10:26am

Get Five Little Known Secrets To Dating in 2012

Dating in the twenty first century has been a roller coaster for men and women across the globe. With Valentine’s Day fast approaching many are in search of not just another mate to occupy the moment but one that will possible stick around past dinner and a movie.

Relationship expert Mo Stegall suggests in order to have sustainable relationships in the New Year men and women must understand these five little known secrets:

1. Discover Your Worth
2. Project What You Want To Attract
3. Inspect What You Expect
4. Examine The Essentials
5. Wait on the Results

Discover Your Worth-Know what your conversation is worth before you give it away to an attraction; understand the value of your time, talents, beauty and precious treasures.

Project What You Want To Attract-project the type of relationship you want to engage short term or long term. If your goal is to meet someone of substance the images you may upload or profile description you complete on social networking sites will need to reflect the type of person you are and will be in the relationship.

Inspect What You Expect -when purchasing a home or renting an apartment we are often given an inspection form to determine what is needed for repair. The same should be used when dating, we must inspect all possibilities (i.e. Structure=Foundation of a person, Exterior how they are viewed by others as well how they present themselves publicly, Wiring-their internal integrity determines if you can trust them. If the wiring is faulty you can expect hazardous problems long-term) A good inspection is going through and checking all the components, a great inspection is double checking and getting references.

Examine The Essentials-examine what's essential to achieving your life long relationship goals, what's important to you today may not be as important tomorrow.

Wait on the Results-wait on the results you have planted seeds for, Patience is learned not given! When and if you decide to invest in the exhausting search for a relationship and dive into the dating pool be patient with the process. Searching through the movie menu at Blockbuster may take a few looks to find the movie you desire, your online search will may require the same.

Knowing and understanding these little known secrets will increase your chances of finding the right mate and allow you to sift through the roughage of Jewel Thieves looking for an easy heist.

Mo Stegall is author of the best selling empowerment book Against All Odds I Can Be: 10 Steps To Revolutionize Your Destiny. He is considered one of the nation's leading authorities on empowerment and is a popular conference speaker, event emcee and college lecturer. To learn more, you can visit http://www.mostegall.com