Published:

06/19/2014 10:05am

Your Energy Could be Affecting Your Child

Energy makes up all things. If you are vibrating negative energy, it may be impacting your child without you even realizing it. Individuals are overworked, stressed and spread too thin at times. Everyone has heard stress is not good for your health, but did you know your stress could be affecting your child’s health too? The link between child and parent’s energy field does not stop with stress levels. They may take on physical, emotional, and/or even spiritual disharmonies all as a result of the energy you may not even know you are vibrating. For purposes of this article, we will refer to any “disease”, ache, pain, emotional distress, or “abnormality” as simply a “disharmony”.



As an energy worker, I receive calls from parents who decide to “give energy work a try” as a last ditch effort to solve their child’s concerns. Often, I find that these children are just simply in one way or another mirroring the disharmony of their own parents. Children sometimes take on pain similar to that of what a parent may be experiencing. I often suggest that both child and parent(s) undergo energy work to complement the child’s challenges if it is an acute concern for this reason.



It is interesting to speak with parents regarding the disharmonies of their children. While they describe the pain their child is feeling, they may be holding the very spot on themselves that is the child’s area of concern; soon divulging that they themselves developed the same issue as a child about their age. Perhaps, although you have always tried to hide your worry from your children, you find that your children are becoming worriers too. Maybe the economy has you developing issues with anxiety and now your son/daughter is showing signs of this disharmony as well. Phobias that you may have never discussed with your children may show themselves-like fear of heights, birds, closed in places. We call this hereditary most often, but what if it was in your energy rather than just your genes? Even within the philosophies of energy work we are brought back to the age old question of nature vs nurture. Nature, being dna-the child's genetic makeup, while nurture, in this case being represented by the energy of their parents. If this statement holds true, this would also support why adopted children sometimes develop their adoptive parent’s “hereditary” conditions or traits.



What if leaving your negative emotions at the door when you get home allowed parents to positively impact their child's health? There are countless studies that support that having a positive mindset can make the difference between surviving a serious illness and succumbing to it. Parents set the tone for the household. Positive parents have uplifting homes. Positive moods are said to build the immune system.



Let's explore the connection between parent and child and why this phenomenon seems to exist. Almost from the moment your child is born they recognize you. They are drawn to you. You develop mom or dad ears that allow you to hear them from a sound sleep. You have a connection that lets you know if they are happy or sad and even if they need you before they tell you. You can feel the mood your child is in even before they tell you what is going on. All of this is possible from an energetic connection that is formed at conception. This connection does not just allow helpful information to be shared. It also creates a link in which energy is shared between child and parent.



Exploring this theory further, you can see synchronicities between disharmonies that appear different, but are in reality only appearing different due to the layer of the energetic field that they show themselves. A parent who feels stuck or unable to move forward in life may have a child with issues in their lower extremities (legs, feet, ect.). A parent unable to grasp life may have a child with arm, hand or finger disharmonies. At first glance this may seem unrelated, however we also must consider that the child’s life experiences affect their energetic field as well, thus their vulnerabilities can appear in different layers of their etheric field-each governing a different part of the whole person. (body/mind/spirit) Depending on the layer of the etheric field that is most vulnerable, the disharmony can show itself to be physical, mental or emotional.



The human energetic field is made up of layers that govern our being. Life experiences can strengthen or weaken these layers. As stated, our connection to others can affect your energy as well. Physical, mental, emotional and spiritual aspects are all represented within these layers. As vulnerabilities occur, if this energetic change is left unattended it can affect others we are connected to as well as other layers within our own energy.



We are human. We will get aches, pains and other mind/body/spirit disharmonies that are not in our control. Control what you can and focus on maintaining positive energy. If this energetic connection exists, what does this mean? Take care of yourself and you will also be caring for your child. Relieve your stress; have babies that sleep through the night. Do you want well-balanced grounded children? Exercise and be grounded yourself. The positive changes you make today may impact your child and even your grandchildren someday. You will be surprised at the balanced household you can create.







About Cindy Nolte



Cindy Nolte is a television talk show host, lecturer, author, motivator and has a private practice.



Cindy holds certifications (in): Reiki Master/Teacher, Animal Reiki Master/Teacher, Karuna Reiki ® Master /Teacher , Hypnosis, Hypnosis-Instructor certified by the National Guild of Hypnotists, Jin Shin Jyutsu ® Practitioner, Past Life Regression Hypnotist, the Life Transformation Method, Energy Releasement, IET ® ( Integrated Energy Therapy ®) Master-Instructor, Sound Therapy, Group Fitness Instructor, and Certified Medium.



Cindy is the founder of Fresh Look on Life and host of Fresh Look on Life TV.



Cindy combines an array of modalities to meet her clients’ needs and to give her a unique view of the world around her. She takes the mind-body-spirit connection very seriously acknowledging that they all must be nourished to create optimum health and wellness. It is with great honor, Cindy assists her clients in uncovering the answers that they hold within.



Cindy is a member of the National Guild of Hypnotists, Associated Bodywork and Massage Professionals, Reiki Membership Association, SARA (a nonprofit organization dedicated to bringing Reiki to shelter animals), and ECA World Fitness. She is a published author and expects her first book to be released in Spring 2014. Viewers can see her weekly on her television show, Fresh Look on Life TV, which is aired in 3 viewing areas in the New York markets including: Port Jervis and its surrounding areas, Middletown, NY and its surrounding areas, and New York, NY.



Cindy resides in Augusta, NJ with her husband Jerry, where she has a private practice and offers: consultations, coaching, workshops, and lectures and certifications. For more information on Cindy Nolte please go to www.freshlookonlife.com